ST 3, 2015
Frida Kahlo
I have a little child in my class, very bright very happy and full of life. She loves to draw, read and even write little essays of her own. Of late we have been seeing a slight change in her. She seemed a bit sad a bit disturbed and a little distracted. Sure enough the mother wanted to meet me and discuss a few issues.
Mother said that because her daughter has uni brow , she is being teased by other children in the class and in the play field and she hates herself now and hates her brows and wants to get it shaped in a beauty parlour which obviously at 6 is not possible ! The mother was desperate and sad and wanted me to handle the situation as her daughter refused to come to school.
When you are a teacher, you are not just a teacher, you are a mother, friend, Counselor , a story teller all rolled into one !! I thought to myself what to do, to make this little child regain her confidence back and bring in her joy . I am as always against sermonizing, I did not want to talk to the class and say that each human being is beautiful and your friend with uni brow is so beautiful etc. at the same time I was not able to figure out how to solve the issue.
Well the very next day an idea struck me and I introduced the lovely artist and my favourite, Frida Kahlo to my class . I told them her story of pain , of adventure and how she faced everything, what a great artist she was, I showed her paintings to the class, I asked the children to get information about her from home, they brought in show and tell . We had a power point presentation on Frida. The whole class became her fan and every one tried to copy her style and incorporate their own imagination into it. But my problem was still not solved. Then Eureka !!!!! one day , a little child just spoke out and said " We have a Frida in our class" she pointed towards our little girl with uni brow. Everybody instantly looked at her and some said how lucky she is !! I knew I did not have to worry any more, the problem was solved !
Now the little girl with the uni brow is not only happy and back to herself but she is very proud of her self and the way she looks and also considers herself an artist with imaginary creative talent in her. She feels she is baby Frida . She has told her mother never again is she ever going to even think of getting her eye brows shaped not even when she is an adult because Frida too was happy and proud of herself .
From this whole interesting experience the class learnt that every one is special in their own ways, they also learnt that looks do not matter, what matters is your great work and hard work, they learnt that never to loose heart and find happiness in what ever you have just like Frida . They learnt about Frida's art, her hard ship and how she fought with her pain and yet kepy painting and kept finding joy with in.
As for my little girl with uni brow , well she paints, feels happy , he is flying high and is the most confident child around
Today I returned from school late and I also have invited people for dinner so I am a bit busy will post my farewell poem tomorrow. Bye for now